[Newsbot]

Title: Cheating makes 'better partners,' infidelity guru says
Category: lifestyle
Posted By: Hyack
Date: 2009-11-14 07:58:00
Canadian

[LightStarr]

No. I call a big fat no way on this. Cheating wrecks things. Hell it wrecked everything for my parents.

[ASLplease]

cheating does not equal...

"I, _______, take you, ________, to be my husband/wife. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love and honor you all the days of my life."

[Brenda]

If you have an understanding about it, it's not cheating. If you don't have that agreement, you're cheating and a lousy partner. No rocket science.

[Bodah]

LightStarr LightStarr:

No. I call a big fat no way on this. Cheating wrecks things. Hell it wrecked everything for my parents.

Same here.

An open marriage or swinging is another matter, but if your cheating on your spouse. How does that make you a better person for everyone involved. Sounds like they are trying to justify being selfish & weak for the better of everyone in their lives, their spouse, their kids they may lose if his/her trist is discovered. Bull shit.

Sit down and talk, if it aint working.

[Brenda]

Some people can't talk...

In any case, if you want someone else in your bed, break up first.

[Yogi]

Brenda Brenda:

Some people can't talk...or won't!

In any case, if you want someone else in your bed, break up first.

[Public_Domain]

[ShepherdsDog]

Why get married if you're fucking other people?? Sounds like something only empty stupid people are into.

[Proculation]

I cheated once and it made me a better person. It actually saved my last relationship. For a while.

[Freakinoldguy]

Brenda Brenda:

Some people can't talk...

In any case, if you want someone else in your bed, break up first.

The only problem is that the cheater would need a sense of morality to do that in the first place.

[gonavy47]

Swingers are weak assholes who don't have the guts or selflessness to maintain a relationship with one person. Selfish assholes, that's all.

[Brenda]

gonavy47 gonavy47:

Swingers are weak assholes who don't have the guts or selflessness to maintain a relationship with one person. Selfish assholes, that's all.

Swinging is a mutual agreement. Cheating is not.

[gonavy47]

Brenda Brenda:

gonavy47 gonavy47:

Swingers are weak assholes who don't have the guts or selflessness to maintain a relationship with one person. Selfish assholes, that's all.

Swinging is a mutual agreement. Cheating is not.

Swinging is NOT always a "mutual agreement". Many times the spouse is co-erced into complying with their mate's wishes. It's still a sick fucking way to live.

[Proculation]

gonavy47 gonavy47:

Brenda Brenda:

gonavy47 gonavy47:

Swingers are weak assholes who don't have the guts or selflessness to maintain a relationship with one person. Selfish assholes, that's all.

Swinging is a mutual agreement. Cheating is not.

Swinging is NOT always a "mutual agreement". Many times the spouse is co-erced into complying with their mate's wishes. It's still a sick fucking way to live.

Maybe because i'm of a new generation but I see nothing wrong of having more than one partner if both persons agree. We are no longer in 1900.