I'd never heard the term before and so I looked it up... there was ONE definition given:
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/tar%20babytar baby
–noun a situation, problem, or the like, that is almost impossible to solve or to break away from.
Also, tarbaby.
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[After "Bre'r Rabbit and the Tar Baby," an Uncle Remus story by Joel Chandler Harris.]
this is a non-issue...
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Origin:
1520–30; niggard + -ly
Washington, DC's black Mayor, Anthony Williams, gladly accepted the resignation of his white staff member, David Howard, because Mr. Howard uttered the word 'niggardly' in a private staff meeting.
Webster's Tenth Edition defines the word 'niggardly' to "grudgingly mean about spending or granting". The Barnhard Dictionary of Etymology traces the origins of 'niggardly' to the 1300's, and to the words 'nig' and 'ignon', meaning "miser" in Middle English. No where in any of these references is any mention of racial connotations associated with the word 'niggardly'.
people are just LOOKING for controversy rather than opening a dictionary
Actually no. I lived in the U.S. for a number of years, during my teen years and "tar baby" is a term that means only one thing....nigger! Anything else is just trying to cover it up. I would accept a simple apology and and explanation that he is just ignorant. The introduction of the trouble over "niggardly" given here is just a red herring.