Chumley Chumley:
Brenda Brenda:
Do you give your kids choices, or do you tell them what to do?
(I know you have young kids, not young adults...)
For thier own good, they get some choices. But they do not get to choose in matters that might cause them harm.
You seriously give your one year old the choice to brush his teeth (that one

) or do you brush his tooth?