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[Brenda]

Lemmy Lemmy:

Gunnair Gunnair:

Yep. Care to guess how many times a woman has come up to me and lifted my kilt, or grabbed my ass to find out what I was wearing? It's funny as hell to them but I wonder what they would if out of nowhere some guy walked up and lifted their skirt or grabbed their ass? Not so fucking cute then.

Ditto.

You gotta be kidding me. Women actually DO that?? AND think it's ok??

I'm ashamed of my gender.

[andyt]

Mr_Canada Mr_Canada:

I'm going to have to be in serious harm and be seriously threatened before I ever strike a woman. I'd try to resolve it in every other way possible first. Even then I have a tough time imagining ever hitting a woman.

I also notice while watching that video that I would walk right on by, and I would assume that guy was cheating or something.

I suppose I'm sexist.

Yep. What if he was hitting her because she was cheating?

[Lemmy]

Brenda Brenda:

You gotta be kidding me. Women actually DO that?? AND think it's ok??

I even mind it some of the time.

[Gunnair]

Brenda Brenda:

Lemmy Lemmy:

Gunnair Gunnair:

Yep. Care to guess how many times a woman has come up to me and lifted my kilt, or grabbed my ass to find out what I was wearing? It's funny as hell to them but I wonder what they would if out of nowhere some guy walked up and lifted their skirt or grabbed their ass? Not so fucking cute then.

Ditto.

You gotta be kidding me. Women actually DO that?? AND think it's ok??

I'm ashamed of my gender.

Yep. Usually they just ask. I'm generally pretty polite but on occasion I push back and give them some grief. Some are even retarded enough to ask in front of my wife.

Usually when they ask what I have on under my kilt and I answer lipstick they shut up . But yep, it's cute when they lift my kilt or grab my ass.

[andyt]

Brenda Brenda:

Lemmy Lemmy:

Gunnair Gunnair:

Yep. Care to guess how many times a woman has come up to me and lifted my kilt, or grabbed my ass to find out what I was wearing? It's funny as hell to them but I wonder what they would if out of nowhere some guy walked up and lifted their skirt or grabbed their ass? Not so fucking cute then.

Ditto.

You gotta be kidding me. Women actually DO that?? AND think it's ok??

I'm ashamed of my gender.

What - you've never seen women drunk before? The problem is that oten the guys like it, as long as she's cute, so it again sets up a double standard. We basically have 3 standards: one for guys, one for cute chicks (they can do anything) and for the not so cute ones.

[SprCForr]

I never would have thought.

Thanks Gunnair. That is today's TIL.

[Gunnair]

SprCForr SprCForr:

I never would have thought.

Thanks Gunnair. That is today's TIL.

TIL?

[SprCForr]

Thing I Learned

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[andyt]

Mr_Canada Mr_Canada:

andyt andyt:

Mr_Canada Mr_Canada:

I'm going to have to be in serious harm and be seriously threatened before I ever strike a woman. I'd try to resolve it in every other way possible first. Even then I have a tough time imagining ever hitting a woman.

I also notice while watching that video that I would walk right on by, and I would assume that guy was cheating or something.

I suppose I'm sexist.

Yep. What if he was hitting her because she was cheating?

Then I'd step in and stop it.

Yep, it's a double standard.

Pretty ingrained too, I must admit.

You want to be very careful stepping into a domestic violence situation. Ask any cop - they're likely to both turn on you.

Or we had the case where a guy stepped in when a man was assaulting a woman. The assaulter smacked our hero who hit his head on a curb and was seriously injured. The woman meanwhile walked away and didn't come forward. When she was found she said she didn't ask for help and it was none of her business what happened to her rescuer.

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[andyt]

Very sad - do you consider yourself a man?

Very sad for your mom and sisters to be that bitter too. One thing I found was that the most ardent feminists would ease way off on the man hating thing once they had a son of their own.

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[andyt]

Yes, but in your case is self-hatred. A pretty skewed way to go thru life. I would seek therapy for this - not a good way to go thru life.