wildrosegirl wildrosegirl:
It's pretty amazing that he survived 18 years. I had looked into the profession when I was young and after spending a few hours with a lady who had been in it for 7 years, decided I was too little to go to jail. I couldn't have dealt with no only the brutality, but the politics that so often prohibit justice from being served, and kids falling through the cracks while in plain sight.
My little cousin just entered the field and I worry about the kid. She's a tough gal, but a heart can only take so much.
Of course they burn out. They are given overloaded case loads with no real resources to effect meaningful change. It's all about putting band-aids on. And many who survive buy into the bullshit that change is just telling somebody to do it differently. So they have "parenting programs" for parents who severely abuse or neglect their children. Short term programs where they just tell the parents "don't abuse or neglect your children, here's how to parent them properly" These are mostly parents who were also severely abused/neglected as children, change just doesn't happen for them because they are told to do it differently. So they cycle thru program after program, the kids are removed to foster care and then put back in the home, over and over.
Social workers can really only be as effective as society is willing to let them be. We're not very willing.