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Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2016 8:59 am
I bet you he doesn't only get 97% on his next test.
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Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2016 9:13 am
My Uncle had 3 daughters. They were hellions. Base brats, each born at different CF bases around the world. He used to drive by a patch of forest on his way home, and ask the girls to look hard to see if they could see anyone in the forest. They'd always look as they drove by. One day, one of them got curious and asked who they were looking for. So he explained "Well, you girls used to have an older brother. One day, he was being a brat, and I had to pull the car over and he got out, right by that stand of trees. I always wonder if he still lives there." He only ever needed to ask "Do you want me to pull this car over?" one time when they were acting up, and always got silence after that.  Worked for a few years, anyhow.
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andyt
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Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2016 9:14 am
DrCaleb DrCaleb: My Uncle had 3 daughters. They were hellions. Base brats, each born at different CF bases around the world. He used to drive by a patch of forest on his way home, and ask the girls to look hard to see if they could see anyone in the forest. They'd always look as they drove by. One day, one of them got curious and asked who they were looking for. So he explained "Well, you girls used to have an older brother. One day, he was being a brat, and I had to pull the car over and he got out, right by that stand of trees. I always wonder if he still lives there." He only ever needed to as "Do you want me to pull this car over?" one time when they were acting up, and always got silence after that.  Worked for a few years, anyhow. Your uncle is nuts. No way to treat children.
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Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2016 9:15 am
Yes, and yes.
But I'm not a parent of 3 wildlings.
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andyt
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Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2016 9:17 am
DrCaleb DrCaleb: But I'm not a parent of 3 wildlings.
So what does that mean?
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Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2016 9:18 am
andyt andyt: DrCaleb DrCaleb: But I'm not a parent of 3 wildlings.
So what does that mean? I have no right to comment on someone elses parenting methods when I'm not a parent.
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andyt
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Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2016 9:20 am
Absolute bullshit. Next time you see a parent waling away at his kid, you can't say anything because you don't have kids? Emotional abuse can be far more hurtful than physical abuse. Threats of abandonment is getting up there on the scale. At least a child that's being beaten can tell herself her parents love her, that's why they beat her. Not so with "we're going to get rid of you."
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Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2016 9:23 am
andyt andyt: Absolute bullshit. Next time you see a parent waling away at his kid, you can't say anything because you don't have kids? Emotional abuse can be far more hurtful than physical abuse. See, now that's exactly what I mean by trolling. I said no such thing, you made up the scenario and got pissed off at me for the things you made up. Assault is not a parenting strategy.
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Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2016 9:27 am
andyt andyt: DrCaleb DrCaleb: My Uncle had 3 daughters. They were hellions. Base brats, each born at different CF bases around the world. He used to drive by a patch of forest on his way home, and ask the girls to look hard to see if they could see anyone in the forest. They'd always look as they drove by. One day, one of them got curious and asked who they were looking for. So he explained "Well, you girls used to have an older brother. One day, he was being a brat, and I had to pull the car over and he got out, right by that stand of trees. I always wonder if he still lives there." He only ever needed to as "Do you want me to pull this car over?" one time when they were acting up, and always got silence after that.  Worked for a few years, anyhow. Your uncle is nuts. No way to treat children. You could have benefited from such discipline. Immensely.
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andyt
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Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2016 9:27 am
Neither is emotional abuse. Yet you seem to have no problem with it, "can't comment."
As I said, it can do far more damage than physical abuse. And I didn't troll you, you said you can't get involved in parenting methods. For many parents, assault is a parenting method, and they come out with the same bullshit you did, that you can't comment because you don't have kids.
You just like to play the game where you make a clear statement, them claim "I didn't say that." Guess you think it's fun.
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Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2016 9:28 am
DrCaleb DrCaleb: andyt andyt: Absolute bullshit. Next time you see a parent waling away at his kid, you can't say anything because you don't have kids? Emotional abuse can be far more hurtful than physical abuse. See, now that's exactly what I mean by trolling. I said no such thing, you made up the scenario and got pissed off at me for the things you made up. Assault is not a parenting strategy. Andy has a penchant for creating straw men and then outraging himself at their imaginary antics.
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Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2016 9:29 am
andyt andyt: You just like to play the game where you make a clear statement, them claim "I didn't say that." Guess you think it's fun. I didn't say that either.
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andyt
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Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2016 9:35 am
Of course not, you're not going to admit it.
If you can't see that threatening abandonment is child abuse, and you don't think you hae a right to get involved, then I guess we should just leave the discussion here.
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Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2016 9:40 am
andyt andyt: Of course not, you're not going to admit it.
If you can't see that threatening abandonment is child abuse, and you don't think you hae a right to get involved, then I guess we should just leave the discussion here. However you were raised was child abuse elsewise you'd not have turned out like this.
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